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jparr's avatar

Happy to learn of this class and the content. Reading the comments by the participants speaks to the impact of the course and the benefit of being able to discuss and share with other men.

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Jerry Portwood's avatar

One thing that I remind younger gay men who may not be aware is how much porn has evolved since I was young. In the 80s/90s it was often "straight" men and there was not a lot of "intimacy" (kissing, cuddling, fondling, tenderness). Rough pounding and no eye-contact was the norm in many cases. I am happy that so much of the online porn (including "amateur porn" found on many of the portals and platforms) involves KISSING. that was not the case when I was a young person, yet it's what I enjoy the most. Despite many people claiming video porn is "toxic" and "harmful," I'm hopeful that so many queer people are seeing kissing, touching, and eye contact in porn, it's "normalized" that sort of contact.

Yes, I know the choking, spitting and other stuff is there—and can be quite satisfying as well, and I appreciate that it's expanded the flavors of pleasure—but the simple act of kissing was missing and now it's common. So I applaud that shift!

(seems I'd enjoy your pornversations so I'll have to be on the lookout for the next one.)

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